Identifying and Transforming Relationship Patterns

Help me identify patterns in my relationship with [person/relationship type]. Analyze the dynamics I describe to recognize recurring cycles of interaction, emotional responses, or conflict. Then help me understand: 1) Potential origins of these patterns, 2) How they might be serving or limiting both of us, 3) My role in maintaining these patterns, and 4) Specific strategies to shift unhelpful patterns into more constructive ones. The relationship dynamics I've noticed include: [describe typical interactions, recurring conflicts, emotional responses, and any patterns you suspect might exist].