Mediating Conflict in Your Relationship: A Structured Guide

I need help resolving a conflict in my [type of relationship]. Act as a relationship mediator and guide me through a structured conflict resolution process. First, help me articulate the issue objectively without blame. Then guide me to understand both perspectives, including possible underlying needs and feelings. Next, help me generate potential solutions that address both parties' core concerns. Finally, create a specific action plan with clear next steps. The conflict I'm experiencing is: [describe the conflict situation, including what happened, how both people seem to feel about it, and any attempts to resolve it so far].